The tag line, "Don't survive; live," originated from my mother who somewhat coined the phrase when she began her battle with cancer. During the early stages of her illness, the
doctors removed a mass from her liver believing that through the operation they
could extract the source of the cancer before it was able to spread. And, initially, miraculously it did so. Before we knew how successful the procedure
would be I had asked her if she was considering undergoing further treatments
like chemo or radiation. She surprisingly
said no, that if the surgery was unsuccessful, then she would face any further
threats without the assistance of those treatments. When I asked her why, she simply told me,
that she felt that it would do more harm than good, that the side effects would
be so potent that her quality of life would be reduced to an unacceptable
level. Her ability to enjoy what might
be left of her life was more important than any treatment that might only
prolong the inevitable while making her day to day life unbearable. She wanted to live, not just survive. It made sense to her, and she fought off
the cancer for nearly 3 years without the assistance of those treatments. Before she died, she told me that she never
regretted that decision, she enjoyed the time she had and appreciated every
moment she was given. She chose to
live, on her terms, and not just survive based on her diagnosis.
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